I Went On a Solo Trip

Haven't we all had those moments where we just need to get away? We want to run, FAR AWAY. Like as far away as we can get from work, life, responsibilities (bleh)! Sometimes we just need a break from the monotony of life, or time to ourselves to reflect on the next steps we want to take. So that's what I did. I wanted a trip not too far, but not too close to where I'd feel I wasn't "away" - so I went to Monterey! (I know that rhymed, I'm gifted).

I booked a nice, but not too expensive hotel for one night and I set off on my "me time" journey with no plans really in set, except I knew the beach was a must! I stayed at the Hyatt (for those wondering), I definitely recommend it, though it can be a bit pricey if staying for longer. I wanted to treat myself for once so I didn't care about splurging just a little!

The best thing about this trip is that I wasn't in any rush. No one was waiting on me or I wasn't waiting on anybody, I didn't have much planned, and I was able to do what I wanted at my own pace. I didn't leave until mid afternoon (just in time to get there for check in). I got there, plopped on the bed, and took some time to take it all in. One thing I knew I wanted to do was go to the beach, and I thought watching the sunset would be perfect. I had planned to bring a book but forgot to bring my own so I went to Luminata Books & Gifts before going to the beach. I definitely recommend this place if you're interested in self-help/inspirational books! Being able to explore a new place is always fun, so I was glad I found this little gem.

I got to Del Monte Beach just in time to find a spot and watch the sunset, and it was awesome sauce. Yes, and here is the proof. Isn't it beautiful =)

Something about the beach puts me at ease, but pair it with a sunset and the heavens seem to open up. I know, corny, but it always seems to put things into perspective. I was able to write a few things just sitting there and letting my thoughts come and go and I found I have not been able to do that in awhile. To just sit. With myself. With my thoughts. Without worrying or rehashing or planning. I was able to just STOP. And I needed that moment.

Sometimes we can get so caught up in life that we don't even know ourselves or even what we want. We might make decisions based on other people, what they want or what they need. But I think it's important to stop sometimes and think about what you need. What do you truly desire apart from what you think you should?

That was the moment for me. It had been a slow culmination - built up from many years. I realized how much more I need to take care of myself and do the things I want to do, the things that make me happy. Maybe this is just me, but as women, I feel we naturally nurture what others want but can often forget to do that for ourselves. I find that even before making a decision I'm constantly thinking about how it affects others, which can be a good quality, but also a detrimental one - analysis paralysis!

But in this moment I didn't analyze. I just sat there and took it all in. I took my time and when I was ready I left. Also, side note: super jealous of the people that live right on the beach! The houses there were gorgeous and I imagine they're worth millions so I'll keep dreaming.

I got back to the hotel and ordered room service - for the first time ever! In my every day life, I'm freaking cheap so even doing this was hard but I told myself, I'm going to do it for me so I can relax in the room and enjoy the experience. A picture is worth a thousand words show I'll just leave this here: (note: I thought I had a picture of the food =( womp womp, but here is this delicious Snickers pie I had for dessert and fancy water)

perfectioooon.

The next morning I caught the flea market that's on the way back from Monterey and got my favorite, I pretty much only stopped for this! Also I got some sweats for $12. If I could live in sweats I would because, comfortable!

I got back home in time to wind down before getting back to reality. It was a short trip but worth it. I spent time with myself, I did whatever the hell I wanted (or didn't want) to do. And I went at my own pace. I recommend everyone do this every once in awhile, whether it's a small trip or a big one. Spending some time with yourself might reveal what you really need.

Also shout out to my co-worker that recommended I take a trip on my own. I didn't go too big, but it's definitely what I needed.